Helloo back with me on the start of 2023, from the title u know what will i write in here. Beforehand I would like to apologize if anyone feels pointed out in this writing.
1. People come and go so easily
It was in 2023 that i realized, they arrive, they become familiar, they maybe be your friend, bestfriend, soulmate, or your special people, and they will leave. It can be without reason, with reason, mendadak, or it can be pre-planned, so prepare yourself.
2. Control your ego
When you have a problem with someone, the first thing that you have made is control your ego, ego can make the problem solved or unsolved, correction yourself, it is your fault? Why this happen? How to solved this problem? You should communicate your problem after you can control your ego.
3. Educate Yourself
Bro, actually i'm done with the people who can't educate their self and push their wrong opinion, like why can u don't accept other opinion? Why people have to accept your opinion?
4. Stop to try make people happy
People actually hasn't the same like you, they have their standar, their happiness, their problem, u cann't control them, and they cann't make u happy as u make them happy ... U can make people happy, but don't put much effort for that ....
5. Communicate yourself with other people
People say, "communicate is a key." I agree with this point, but did i do it? yes, i do it in some situation. It happen when people push me to letting out my opinion and my feeling. It is hard to start, but this phase will be come. Without communication, people doesn't know your feeling, you cann't know their feeling, people doesn't know what on your mind, and you can't know on their mind.
6. Control your mouth
When you have to communicate with someone, you should know is that people will that person be hurt by what we say? Are our words more subtle? Are our words appropriate? People not a same like you.
7. Don't be a tone deaf
Tone deaf mean that people who hasn't a symphaty or emphaty, example: "you just ask your mom some money." Bro, actually some people doesn't have a good economies, what you say can ruin your friendship..
8. Act like a Cinnamon
Cinnamon here is defined as a smiling and innocent person, see how people around you react, whether good or bad, that's when you start choosing your friends.
9. Know your limits
People have their boundaries, and u should know your limits, Do you know how annoying it is for me when people just come and go using me? It's very annoying, so I have to know my limits as much as possible.
10. Try to cut off people
I know it is not ez, but will you keep your pain in a cage? Instead of be a butterfly and fly alone? Be alone not that bad, u just need adaptation ... You'll get used to making your own.
11. Have a good management
Poor management is really annoying, whether it's time management, self-management or something else. It's like there's so much you could be doing but you can't because of your poor management.
12. Always do basic manner
People who don't have basic manners are annoying, but you can't control others. So start with your own basic manners and model them to others through your actions.
13. Don't reply on other too much
In this world, things aren't what you think they are, they can change at any time. That kind of behavior of yours can annoy them
14. Still have a touch with your old friends
There's nothing wrong with maintaining friendships with your old friends, maybe one day they will help you, not your new friends.
15. People is unic
They, your friends, your family, your teachers, all the people in this world have their own characteristics. Don't force them to be like you, and don't force yourself to be them. Develop yourself to be a better version of yourself.
Okay that's all i can think about 2023.. there is nothing to regret. Life is about learn and how you can handle it.
Have a nice day!!
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